Millie Richards Stone Gray(1800-1851) of Fredericksburg, Virginiakept a diary from January 1822 until May 1829. She wrote of her life and her husband and her children, as well as local and national events. The diary is a good source on life in 1800s Fredericksburg and it compliments area histories.

Mrs. Gray wrote mostly about her daily life and spent most of it in Fredericksburg after marrying William Fairfax Grayin 1817. A great deal of her time was spent receiving vistors or visiting friends and family. She also spent time with the Circle of Industry, which seemed to be a sewing circle; and, put together a craft fair. Mrs. Gray also wrote of shopping trips, changing homes, servants, and attending St. George's Episcopal Church. She used the diary to record some recipes and inventories.

Mrs. Gray had at least eight children. In the diary, she mentions Peter Gray, Jane Gray, Evelina Gray, George Fairfax Gray, Ann* Gray, Franklin Gray, and two other children. One son died prior to 1822; daughter Jane in 1823; and, son George in 1825. She mentions her children during important events in their life, such as christenings, travels, their private school education, and illnesses.

Mrs. Gray mentions her husband fleetingly in each entry, referring to him as "Mr. Gray," giving the diary a formal tone; he was twelve years older than his wife. He published several books and was the editor and proprietor of the Virginia Herald. His literary profession provided many opportunities for travel, taking him frequently to Washingtonand Alexandria. Mr. Gray was a Mason and while in Fredericksburgbecame Master of the Lodge. He was also a colonel in the army through membership in the Washington Guard, attended his lodge meetings as well as meetings of the literary and music societies, and was active in the fire commission and in local politics. He left Fredericksburg in 1835 and travelled to Texaswhere he ultimately settled; his [published] diary gives detailed information of these travels.

Mrs. Gray often writes of her extended family. Her father and mother were frequent visitors, and she wrote of her father's death in 1827. She also writes about her four sisters: Mary Stone, Evelina Stone, Louisa Stone, and Margaret Stone. Mary married Thomas Botts; Evelina married Charles Smith; Louisa married John Triplett; and, Margaret married Dr. Brown. It is unclear whether this Dr. Brown is the Dr. Browne who is frequently mentioned in the diary. She seemed to be the closest to Evelina and Mary.

Mrs. Gray also mentions events in Fredericksburg and the nation, including topics such as the weather, disease, deaths, medicine, fires, General LaFayette's visit, and transportation. Each entry begins with an account of the weather. She frequently wrote about illness and medicine, referring to lockjaw, consumption, smallpox, the croup, toothaches, headaches, and colds, and to leeching as the cureall for these ailments. The diary recounts the events surrounding the great fire of 1822, during which the Gray Familylost their home, as well as other smaller fires in Fredericksburg during this period. Another fascinating event that occurred in Fredericksburg was the visit of General LaFayettein 1824. Mr. Gray addressed LaFayette as Master of the Masonic Lodgeand invited him to become a member. The diary offers a very good first hand account of the visit and the general excitement it caused. The diary also mentions the modes of transporation in use at the time: giggs, steamboats, stagecoaches, and other forms of horse travel. Mrs. Gray also mentions national events, such as the election of John Quincy Adamsand Andrew Jackson, the deaths of Thomas Jeffersonand John Adams, a fire in Alexandria, Virginiaan Indian raid, and the fiftieth anniversary of the Declaration of Independence.

Mrs. Gray used the diary to record events of interest and to document historical events. She wrote a great deal about her daily life along with her children and husband. It is an interesting look into the life of a young woman's life from her point of view. Relevant and complementary information may be found in and

List of names found in the diary (in the order in which they appear): Nancy Lucas LongLunsford LongMr. Thomas BottsMr. GordonMrs. EdwardsMr. ThornMr. William MortonMr. GrinnanMr. WillisSusan GreenPeter (son)Ann ScottMrs. FitzgeraldSister MaryMr. HarrisonMr. WilliamsSukey PerryMr. LockwoodMrs. GordonMrs. FitzhughEvalina (daughter)Evalina (sister)Thomas GoodwinAunt GrahamMrs. CarJudge GreenAnna SmithDr. WellfordMr. (Rev.) McGuireSally LucasRebecca LomaxMr. ScottMr. R. LewisMr. William Mc FarlaneMr. CrutchfieldMr. John BrownBetsy MortonRichard PeacockWilliam GoodwinMiss Ellen PattonJohn J. ChewsEmily TaylorMr. HandyWilliam RoyAnn SeddonJulia MercerJane ChewingJanet ScottAnn ScottLawrence BerryMrs. Bolling FitzhughJanetMr. John PollackMr. Gordon ScottMr. HarrisonMrs BuchMiss WilsonMr. Hugh HamiltonJohn MinorJohn MundillJennette McIntoshGeorge TurnerPhiladelphia C. frazerMr. HudginLunsford LomaxMaragaret StewartHarriet BuckMary BuckSandy PeytonPolly Sharpe